Planning a wedding can feel like a whirlwind of to-do lists, Pinterest boards, and tiny details—but when the big day finally arrives, it’s all about soaking up every magical moment.
As a photographer working with couples across Nottingham and Derby and being apart of weddings myself as a bridesmaid, I’ve seen the behind-the-scenes of weddings—from teary-eyed first looks to last-minute lipstick fixes. So, here are my top 10 tried-and-true tips to help you actually enjoy your big day.
1. Start the Day with Intention
Take 10 minutes in the morning just for you. Whether it's journaling, deep breaths, or listening to your favourite songs, centering yourself early sets the tone for a calm, joyful day.
2. Don’t Skip Breakfast
Seriously—eat something! Wedding days are long, and you’ll want energy for all the dancing, hugging, and (yes) champagne sipping.
3. Plan Buffer Time into Everything
Running late causes stress. Whether it’s makeup, transport, or group photos, always add an extra 10–15 minutes just in case. It helps everything feel smooth and stress-free.
4. Choose Vendors You Actually Like
Your suppliers (especially your photographer ) are with you most of the day. Pick people you vibe with—it makes a huge difference in how comfortable and supported you feel.
5. Let Go of Perfection
Rain? Slightly off-centre flowers? Uncle Bob wearing novelty socks? Embrace it all. The best moments are often the unplanned ones.
6. Take a Breather Together
Ask your photographer to sneak you away for 10 minutes during golden hour or after the meal. No guests, no pressure—just the two of you soaking it in.
7. Wear Comfy Shoes (or Bring Spares!)
Whether you're wearing heels or brogues, your feet will thank you for a back-up pair when the dance floor opens up.
8. Appoint a Point Person
Pick a bridesmaid or close friend to handle minor issues, answer supplier questions, or track down a missing corsage. That way, you’re free to focus on the fun.
9. Be Present During the Ceremony
This is the moment you’ve waited for. Pause. Breathe. Look around. These few minutes are powerful—soak them in without worrying about the timeline.
10. Remember: It’s YOUR Day
Trends, opinions, and expectations can cloud your vision. But your wedding is about your love story. So do what feels right for you—whether that's a sparkler exit or a quick change into your Converse.
One Last Thing…
Your wedding day goes by in a blur—but the feelings, memories, and photos last forever. My job as a wedding photographer is to make sure you can relive it all without stress or stiff poses—just real, joyful moments captured naturally.
If you're getting married in Nottingham, Derby, or the surrounding areas, and are still looking for a wedding photographer who’ll keep you relaxed and smiling, I’d love to chat.
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